February 15, 2016: day 18 of 60 day challenge- post-St Valentine

Dear February,

I have started questioning myself on love, and two of my wise blog-friends, Anna and Erika have contributed valuable comments yesterday. Anna is in love and loved by a great guy. I think the same stands for Erika. So they both told me, the hypothesis of my Spanish friend: “society has changed and there are no stable loving couples”, is not valid. I like their perspective better.

Erika also said, every form of loving relationship has its value. Love for one day, with someone you meet on the plane. Short term relationship with someone who changes and so have you. You have the difference between a hot dog on the run, a sort of fast food, average restaurant. And then, you have true love, that is like haute cuisine and 3 stars restaurant at the Michelin guide, if I may use the cuisine comparison.

Do you need to have tried all the other versions to appreciate the 3 star in the Michelin guide restaurant? No. But also, yes.

There are moments we are not available, Erika says. We have this meeting to catch, so a hot dog from someone in the street is fine. Or we just stop at the fast food for a while. But a 3 star restaurant is not only related to expenses, but also needs planning, reservation. You can’t just decide it at the last-minute. So, somehow, it has to be a priority number one.

Now, what kind of love are you ready for April?

I would like to be invited to the 3 star restaurant. In this way I save some time and enjoy the outcome all the same đŸ˜‰

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February 14, 2016: day 17 out of 60 day challenge- Happy Valentine’s day!

Happy St.Valentine’s day dear February!

here we are, in the middle of the month, with the spring waiting around the corner. And what is better than love to keep us warm, us, those who live on the north hemisphere?

Oh, love, I had a business meeting with a Japanese artist and his Iranian girlfriend, but this doesn’t exactly count as a date.

And I also spent part of the day trying desperately to get myself connected to the internet. This is long, so I spare you the details, it is not the right moment. But most of all I went out for a drink with the Spanish scenarist who tries to get enough money to go to Hollywood. He told me London is the right place to work on something he doesn’t really like such as selling cosmetics to women. When he will have the amount he thinks necessary, in a couple of years, he will go to Hollywood to try his chance.

In the meanwhile, he is looking for an almost relationship with an available female. The female should not want children with him neither family. He told me life has changed and the model of the couple with children is no longer valid in our societies. People wouldn’t stay in a relationship for more than 4 years.

He could be right about divorces raising. And that the way people live together might have changed. But somehow, deep down, it feels like there is always a way to show love and affection. And to grow with our relationship.

Happy St Valentine to all of us!

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