October 6- Dedication

Dear October

do I keep my promises? Now, should I be honest about this? Ok. Sometimes yes and sometimes no, if we look at things from a limited time perspective. But yes, I keep them in the long run.

How about writing every day?

I am almost there, because I have a better rhythm compared to August, or even September. But I need to see it as pleasure in order to continue.

Wait a second, you might add, is there a reason for writing every day? Something particular to say?

It is to keep track of my thoughts; And share them also 🙂

How about the reason you started the blog? Self transformation and true love? 

You mean if I have made any progress? Yes, definitely, I have done some internal work: I understand true love starts with better quality love for myself and others, and self-transformation is constant.

Why are you not completely persuaded? If I have something more concrete?

Like what, like something I can touch or kiss or eat? Yes, I have positive transitory results; it is like trying the soup while it is boiling and being satisfied, but leave it there for a while, adding may be some salt or pepper, until it’s ready.


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July 19- A reason to get married?

Dear July,

was it serious of me to propose to someone because he is cooking well? I don’t know. I went to a dinner party where a friend of a friend cooked some delicious dishes, everybody loved. Good cooking is not something you find easily these days. I told him, and he seemed to reflect on the idea quiet seriously. He asked what are my talents. What could I bring to this marriage? He is looking for someone to iron his shirts. (He is Italian by the way). I told him I don’t iron well. I am also not a very good housekeeper. But I tell stories.

He also wants to watch “Game of Thrones” without being interrupted. Fair enough. I don’t watch tv myself, but if we manage to get two rooms, that would do. He doesn’t like women who talk a lot. I don’t think I am one of them, I’d rather blog.

Now for the rest, such as attraction, we didn’t bother much. It wasn’t the case for many generations before us. Would he get something in this kind of bargain? I don’t know. It’s up to him to find out.

I need to try more recipes to make sure before I commit myself 😉

Should we be down to earth when it is a question of marriage or expect a romantic feeling that sweeps us off our feet? Is falling in love unrealistic?


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