March 11, 2016- day 36 out of 60 day challenge; out of the comfort zone might be uncomfortable

Hello March,

so have we mentioned that it could feel uncomfortable out of the comfort zone?

I have experienced this feeling as I was letting my big mouth run away and state opinions in front of a group of people I never met before. They were so surprised with my comment, it was as if they were facing an alien for the first time. So they left my comment-question without answer or discussion. I felt a bit uncomfortable because I was vulnerable and exposed. At the same time I felt kind of ridiculous.

Was it dangerous? Well I am still alive.

How about my reputation? After all, these people are remotely connected to the art world. What if they take me for a fool?

Well, I could have kept quiet, yes I could. It kind of reminded me of times I were still at school, or at my first years in the University. When I took the courage to raise my hand and ask, and sometimes, my question was not very well received by my teacher or professor.

In any case, should one open one’s mouth outside of their comfort zone, should I risk the ridicule?

Where is the frontier between courage and foolishness?

 

March 7, 2016- day 35 out of 60 day challenge-Comfort zone test

Dear March,

I am at the second half of my challenge to change myself and it seemed a good idea to take this test which measures my comfort zone. The questions concern adrenaline raising experiences but also relational, professional and other dimensions of our life. I scored 63,9 % .

If I break the score down, I take a lot of professional risks, moved to a new country, … but when it comes to more relational, like creating a family my score is less high, not to speak of adrenaline seeking experiences… diving, …I let you imagine.

So, should I challenge myself this way?

After all, the publication of my first book in France is already a challenge.

Couldn’t I concentrate on this? After all, this is my biggest heart’s desire.

How about relationships? Trying a long term relationship with someone in the same country or city? A friend of mine suggested I tried TINDER although I am not sure he is an exam

Or getting up early in the morning for a change?

I read in ELLE UK that Debbie Morgan, a columnist, took 30 day challenges for a whole year. It this an interesting tool?

Would you have any suggestions?

Résultats de recherche d'images pour « my comfort zone »

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jacob-morgan/why-getting-out-of-your-c_b_6660452.html

http://www.whatismycomfortzone.com/