December 31, 2017-Ready for a 2017 Year in Review?

Hello December,

the year is close to an end – and it’s time for a review, without letting the food and desert debaucheries weaken my critical judgement.

How do I have fun in a creative way?

Probably, by doing things with people who appreciate and love me, even if it’s just one person. And I’d better be one of them. People I also love and appreciate.

Starting with ourselves, giving some love and appreciation for whatever we have accomplished, tried, failed, imagined, … is the first step I guess.

There is always better and higher.

But don’t we deserve a WELL DONE, for our efforts, struggles and for just being around?

 

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September 17, 2017-Old and New decisions- Confidence boost

Hello September,

sometimes insecurities can make us embrace other people’s values, I listened to Natalie Portman say, and this comment goes home!

So how do we leave behind in-securities and go do whatever we want to?

I see in front of me a handsome guy whose nervousness make him less attractive. So why doesn’t he just relax?

Why would I do the same?

I have a project, and I have a purpose.

I am going to wake up earlier.

And write every morning, even a small note.

It is important to own my meaning.

And to congratulate ourselves for doing this.

So today, I have some writing, but I will also take care of my home, clothes, and do things I love.

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/a27886/factors-affecting-self-confidence/?zoomable

March 9, 2017- How to make a mistake and still feel confident :-)

 

Hello there March,

I had a discussion with a friend yesterday about making mistakes and still feeling Great! It is a bit challenging to realise you did something “stupid” and still feel so intelligent and on top of things.

My friend told me she is a pessimist, but she goes about with a huge smile. So different perspectives could work differently for different people. I proclaimed myself an optimist, but that doesn’t stop me from feeling messed up sometimes.

And then what?

Is there a way to fix things?

And to boost self-confidence?

Here are some ideas I found:

http://www.inc.com/kevin-daum/6-ways-to-boost-your-confidence-after-making-a-big-mistake.html