so what if I fall on a star, and the moon is still further away?
The first reaction is to feel unsatisfied, after all, this star was not where I was aiming for. And feel guilty. I should have done this and this and that. Or feel powerless. After all, I seem to have objectives and I don’t fulfill them as I should. And then, if I accept the result, does it make me someone who is stuck there?
Feeling bad about oneself is wasting our time.
I have tried it, it just gives you unwelcome psychosomatic annoyances.
Well, if they are changing every day you lose a sense of direction.
But they can be a little bit flexible.
How about creating exceptions and correcting our course?
Here is how it can go/
I am great anyway, and objective X is worthwhile.
I said that I would wake up at 5.30 and today I woke up at 9.00.
I needed this because last week I took a business trip and I needed time to recover.
So much the better.
Instead of feeling guilty I give myself a free day, for rest but also for taking a mental vacation out of everything and reorienting myself towards the North Star.
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Jul · 11
yes, I read a philosopher who said that: the limit of our language, is the limit of our world. Isn’t that food for thought?
So, how can I expand my language, my vocabulary, my means of expression?
Poetry is one way: both writing and reading poetry.
Doing poetry, being poetry,
words, expressions, let’s use as many tools and let’s change them so that they become and we transform ourselves in the process!
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Jun · 28
we are here all of us interconnected, with or without technology. We share the same planet and this becomes somehow important for everyday life in a way we might not even realize.
Especially in the morning.
When we open our eyes.
And we haven’t had yet our coffee, tea, juice, …
and we don’t know exactly where we are.
And still, this is a moment we share.
Is this giving me fuel to go on with my day?
here we are, let’s do something to better our life;
how do we move forward? Is for example moving forward going towards New York or California? Just to take an example.
Is moving forward going North or South?
It all depends on the objective, no?
But is the destination that counts or the fact that we move?
It seems like moving is important.
Towards a goal.
If you have lived all your life in Paris, maybe it’s good to see something else.
Despite the fact that half of the world’s population dreams to get there.
If you are born in New York you need to get out of there also.
I don’t use examples from other places, which could be just wonderful or horrible for different reasons.
Do we have to travel around the world then?
I guess that moving from the couch to the desk we are writing is a huge move for someone who travels in thought 🙂
voyager en pensée
how do I keep my compass with me everyday, in a way I am focused on whatever I have in mind to accomplish?
Little or big things happen, change arrives and it is good.
We change our values and preferences with time, and our friends, as I just read.
But is there something that is constant?
And if yes, how do I keep my eyes on it?
Where my North Star is?
How do I switch from a feeling of being guilty for not being perfect to acknowledging my strengths and going forward?
I sometimes take it on me I haven’t accomplished this and that; if i find resistance, is there a way to change something so that I go with the flow?
Probably, feeling guilty is taking my gaze away from the North Star.
It is irrelevant.
Am I doing what is best?
I am doing my best for the day.
I promise that.
And doing that is already great.
How about issues that seem to be obstacles?
If I face the North Star, I will find my way around them 😉
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Jun · 20
Hello dear June,
after working until midnight on my poems, I woke up with a mood; some positive thinking didn’t work wonders, so I decided to take the morning off. Just for me.
I had a sense of emergency the whole weekend. This and that and the other.
But this epiphany was enough.
I am heading towards hot chocolate, to begin with.
I am getting outside.
There is some sun, we will eventually meet.
And I might look for a hairdresser I had postponed.
Emergency or not, I want to feel good now.
it is sunny and cloudy and windy over here; time to open my eyes and move, wouldn’t you say?
I am sitting at the café next to two men in their fifties talking business and looking 8-year-old deep down.
Or is it because I am still asleep and they are part of my dream?
In any case, I just mailed my poems back home because I am looking for another publisher.
In the meanwhile, there is a short story to finish for today.
Let’s see how it goes.
here you are again… so how do I empty my pockets and bag from the worrying thoughts which might emerge?
I see that this is the only way … what, to write a letter and put it in a bottle? And let the stream or the sea take them?
This sounds like a good idea…
I can do it in the form of questions…
I have read that those who live in the future are anxious, that would be me today,
those who live in the past can be depressed
and those who live in the present feel peace…
so, how do we prepare the future?
How do I make sure of my capacities to face any challenge?
Because I have come this far.
I have faced pretty awesome challenges.
And here I am.
The future will look after itself.
And the present?
The present is a gift.
And we can share it with those we love in whichever form they are 🙂
it has been three years since I decided to start a blogging adventure, as a form of a diary, addressing myself to the different months. I was living in Paris at the time, and I had to face a into my face wannabee boss and my unfullfieled artistic and love drives. I meant to write every day.
Ever since, a lot of things have changed.
I am in London.
I have published my first novel (to be translated in English soon).
My heart is still attached to Paris, but I am happy to have started new adventures here.
I would like to thank so much all of the friends who have accompanied me and offered feedback all these years.
Your advice has been valuable!
More precisely I would like to thank some of my oldest friends, but also those I havent’t mentioned with their wise comments:
pursuit of happiness WordPress
la bibliotheque qui ne brule pas wordpress
Time is Fleeting, Never Stop
The treasure we are
Crucial Inner Skills for Writers and Artists
These are some of my first and very good friends, but I am grateful for all of you who read and interact with this blog.
Please feel free to give me a feedback, in order to grow also!
THANK YOU so much
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Apr · 01
thanks for the great moments and for bringing Spring again; the trees on flower, the bees, and the rest of nature falling in love, how can you resist this powerful urge?
Do you realize I am one step away from my 3 year blog-anniversary?
So, a time to update and see what has been accomplished, and new goals for the future.
I started with the idea I needed to change something in my circumstances. I understood I start from changing myself.
And here I am today.
Still on the road but with major changes and some for the best. From Paris to London.