Dear May,
instead of working, as my guilty conscious whispered to me, I spend much of my day trying to adopt a kitten. Without much success. My intentions were honorable, though.
I met this five-month-old cat in a local café, trying to get the attention of the customers. She looked hungry, and she reminded me of a beloved garden cat who got kidnapped by a neighbor, known as “the German lady”.
In any case, my heart melted, and after some inquiries, the cat seemed to be all by herself, hungry and in a so and so shape.
In our garden, there is a sleeping spot, peace, food, and drinks twice a day; that’s my best offer for now. So I took some food, put the kitten in the box, and transported her to our garden. There, she enjoyed a three stars Michelin equivalent lunch and dinner for cats. She looked grateful and happy, and she took place by the front door.
However, when I went to look for her this morning, she was gone.
I was a bit worried. Would she be ok?
After all, it’s her decision. And I can’t take her inside, with the other cat who is a bit aggressive.
Can you adopt someone without their consent? In the case of my previous garden cat, he was the one who decided to adopt our garden.
Can we adopt someone if we are not adopted back?

It’s the adoptee who adopts you not the other way around.
absolutely!!!