April what do you think:
do we know our feelings ourselves? Can we be the best judge of what is happening to us or is it someone who knows us well who can do it better?
I ask because I had a conversation with a friend of mine. I have been spending some time lately with a Spanish guy. Visiting exhibitions, going to the cinema together. He is an artist I had collaborated with before on one or two occasions when I was living in Paris. The thing is, are we going out together because we don’t have enough friends yet? Or is it that we like each other? Is there a romantic interest involved?
You might tell me hang on a second, are you 12 year’s old? Shouldn’t you have resolved this question before?
This is true but I am not very sure. When we meet we discuss relationships. Our past and our goals in life. It is a little bit like a friendship of the time I was an adolescent.
Is there any form of attraction between us? Or is it a process towards another step in our lives?
April, do you feel good when you are with him? Then simply keep the meetings and conversations up…. and see what happens! You don’t need to know more right now, don’t you think?
Dear Erika I love your approach on things! For now it feels like a precisous friendship 🙂 No need to rush…
Right, I see it the same way! Just enjoy what is 😊