Hello February,
should I trust my emotions regarding a person, or my head? Or just give more time? I refer to people of course, potential love interests, friends, colleagues…
Sometimes people might seem nice and we start hanging around. Then there is an uneasy feeling about something. I say, may be I was picky that day. Then I find this feeling again. If this person doesn’t make me feel good should I withdraw? Where did the likeability go?
Is there something in the recipe which is not so good or should we try again?
You see, in London, I don’t know so many people, so I jump at the opportunity to make new friends and acquaintances. But spending time with just anybody, might not be the best thing for either.
We should make each other feel good most of the time no?
What would you say?
Some times it’s all about feeling good and sometimes you know the challenge is right for you in the long run, so allow it … my point of view 🙂
thank you, I like a lot this idea, discerning is so important!
First focus on loving self then you can make others simile if you wish… Love your blog xxx barbara x
Thank you dear Barbara, I also love yours 🙂
I guess we learn something or the other from all our contacts…if it goes good then good for us 😊…if not it leaves behind experience 😉 sometimes the heart takes over the head…knowingly or unknowingly we tend to go with the flow…that’s what life is about I guess 😊. Trust your instincts & keep going friend.
Thank you dear friend!
Hey, trust your feelings. They are some times wrong, but less often than one’s head? Haha! 😉
The Talmud warns us against disdaining any person. Every person has value and a contribution to make. So every person deserves a chance. But not everyone is going to connect equally to everyone else. We only have so much time and mental energy, and we have to apportion them wisely.