It is so great to feel part of a network of emotions, ideas, relationships, that unite us with the whole planet but also with the universe!
How do we get trapped into our everyday reality and forget it?
When we travel, love, change perspective, we are more aware.
When we talk about our everyday questions, and they become huge, we forget. We forget how great we are!
A routine is very important, like a constant theme in music that allows improvisation. But when our routine replaces reality in our thinking, it is dangerous. We become this routine. And we get imprisoned in it.
I have been drilling on the same questions for a while now. I have been thinking of B, C, or D. I have been examining my “persona”, the way my behavior could be interpreted by this or that individual. As if there was a “right” behavior, and if I don’t have it I loose in the game of love.
And I now realize that love couldn’t be like a cooking recipe. Where you put the ingredients and expect it to have the same taste.
Why do I get fixated in B for example? I am sure he is wonderful, but if he is for me and I for him, things will unfold smoothly.
It could be that it is something of importance to me that I project in him, something I think I don’t have already. And I unconsciously believe that B is going to get it for me and make me happy and whole.
Is this true? Yes and No.
Yes, because a loving relationship is more than one person.
And No, because it is the relationship that is magical, not the specific characteristics of this or that individual.
Then when is the timing perfect for a “meeting”? When do we get attracted by a relationship and not by someone’s attributes?
Probably when we don’t need to ask the question.